Confrontation is extremely difficult for me. But it keep coming up in my life as a lesson to get me, Esther Marie, to speak up! So despite being terrified I made a phone call and expressed how I felt and now I feel so much better! Now I can say that I am proud of myself for pushing myself to say when I don’t like something or am uncomfortable with a situation. But let me say that I will change the word CONFRONTATION to COMMUNICATION. All I was doing was what appearantly normal adults do every single day! This is a victory for me. I am extremely proud of how far I have come. The situation turned out well. The other person listened patiently to my concerns and validated my expericence. This doesn’t always happen however.

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